I absolutely abhor the first sentence in the picture. The second is more tolerable. The truth is that we live in a materialistic society and there’s little chance of that changing anytime soon. Maybe one of the reasons I hate that sentence is that it implies that you won’t care as much about the money if you have some of your own or you aren’t lazy. Money impresses more than just lazy people. And we all know people who work extremely hard but have absolutely nothing to show for it. People who want to accomplish things with their lives don’t want to be with someone who holds them back. Working hard isn’t all that’s necessary. There are other things that must be present. Love does not pay bills and having a man with money can not only be a bonus but also an upgrade. I’m against that as one’s only plan out of poverty but one of THE smartest financial decisions a woman can make is to get married. If you bring something substantial to the table, I feel like you shouldn’t feel bad that his net worth is also calculated with his marriage ability rating. If I’m merging my life with yours I want to come out with a better deal than I went in with. It doesn’t always have to be money but that will play a pretty sizable part. I agree that money doesn’t bring happiness but I personally would rather cry in my BMW than on my bike.
Monthly Archives: August 2014
10 Things I learned traveling this week
1. When you’re traveling and going ahead in time zones, it’s easier taking an overnight flight because your body is less likely to betray due to jet lag
2. Change your money to the local currency either at a bank or somewhere in the U.S. if possible where they won’t charge you an arm and leg. Airports are the WORST places to do this because fees are substantial.
3. It’s always nice to have a least a basic knowledge of the language. Words and phrases like “hello, goodbye, how are you, do you speak English?” in the native language can be very helpful to know.
4. A lot of people who work in a service profession can help you out since they’re more likely to speak English.
5. In France and Spain they drive on the right side of the road. And pedestrians don’t have right of way. This means that if you walk on the red in a crosswalk it’s at your own risk. I saw way too many near deaths where the car didn’t stop but the person figured it out just a second before hty got hit.
6. Pick a good hotel. It doesn’t have to be 5 stars but you want to feel safe and comfortable. Check the ratings before you book and make sure that the doors have deadbolts. You’ll sleep better
7. Be very wary of the directions people give you. Keep a map at all times and learn how to use it. Effectively.
8. Tourist places are great but sometimes it’s nice to see how the real people live. Plus, the food is usually cheaper in non-tourist sections of town.
9. Keep some form of ID with you at all times. Some people carry around a copy of their passport. It’s just good to do.
10. Give yourself some time to adjust when you get back. Jet lag is bad. Really bad.
